It’s Thanksgiving morning, time to interrupt the series of memories I’ve posted about past games between Michigan and Ohio State to recall what Thanksgiving should be about. Sure, there are numerous football games I could recall, such as the 1973 classic between Midland Park and Waldwick, with MP rallying from 13 points down to win 18-13, or the 1984 game between Fordham Prep and Xavier, with Xavier rallying in the final minutes for a 12-7 win, or the bitter cold on the hill at Don Bosco in Bosco’s 16-7 win over Paramus Catholic in 2000, but the truth is that football just accompanies the holiday. More than that, it really shouldn’t be a holiday about devouring a ton of food. Sure, food is part of it, but it only serves as window dressing for the occasion.

The core of Thanksgiving Day should always be about gratitude for all the good things we have in life, and about making an effort to make it good for someone else. I’m as guilty as the next person when it comes to pursuing the rat race, but the real opportunity in this holiday isn’t the chance to consume food from a world-class chef who graduated from a culinary school, it’s the chance to stand up and help others. Saturday I interrupted my usual routine to work as a line judge at a charity volleyball tournament in Paterson, N.J., while my wife served as the referee. We, like many others, donated canned goods to be given to needy families. We’re not millionaires by any means, but it was an opportunity to help others. I don’t mean to boast, but I did feel good afterward, as I think everyone involved did. Frankly, I think almost every time you help others, you feel better about life, and your role in it.

There have been a lot of movies involving Thanksgiving over the years, but to me, the most meaningful was “Scent of a Woman.” Two people, a high school prep student dealing with an ethical challenge, and a veteran blinded by an accident, struggle with the circumstances of their lives. Together, they help each other. The ending isn’t the old fashioned, everything-is-ideal Hollywood scenario; instead, it concludes with a flash of semi-realistic optimism. Each character gets through his particular quandary, and makes a friend in the process. There’s something to be said for that. Maybe if we all try to help someone, we can get through tough times in life.

Happy Thanksgiving to all!

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For the third installment of the Looking Back series, we’ll go to 1987. The country had enjoyed tremendous prosperity throughout much of the mid-1980s, but there was a brief hiccup on Wall Street in the fall of ’87 that caused substantial losses for many investors. “The Cosby Show” ruled the television world, but not too far behind was “Family Ties,” a show about a family raised by a couple of 1960s liberals with three children, including a conservative son, Alex P. Keaton, masterfully played by Michael J. Fox. Interestingly, the show was set in Columbus, Ohio, the epicenter of Ohio State Buckeye football, yet it seldom, if ever, made any reference to the Buckeyes. The show’s creator, Gary David Goldberg, who died in June, was a native of Brooklyn, N.Y. But I digress.

On the field, 1987 proved to be a frustrating season for both rivals. Michigan had already suffered three losses by the time The Game rolled around, leaving the Wolverines with a nondescript season. Ohio State was in much the same boat, but head coach Earle Bruce was in a tougher spot than Bo Schembechler was at Michigan. Bruce had succeeded Woody Hayes at Ohio State, and endured the inevitable comparisons that come with following a legend. By 1987, the faithful in Columbus were furious with Bruce, a good coach who walked into an impossible situation. But on this day, Bruce would go out on top, literally.

As Ohio State entered Michigan Stadium, Bruce’s fate was already known. Three consecutive losses in the weeks leading up to The Game left the Bucks with a 5-4-1 record, and Bruce was informed earlier in the week that he would not return as the Buckeyes’ coach in 1998, but he would be allowed to finish the season as head coach. As the teams took the field, Ohio State players could be seen with headbands that had “EARLE” scrawled across them in capital letters.

Sure enough, the headbands proved to be a good omen for Bruce and the Bucks. Ohio State played an inspired game, upsetting Michigan 23-20 in one of the underrated games in the series. For one game, the Bucks were revitalized, and one Buck, in particular, was revitalized for quite some time.

As Rob Oller noted in an outstanding story in The Columbus Dispatch (which is linked here), William Moxley, nicknamed “Buck,” was seated in the end zone at Michigan Stadium that day, while his son Tim played on the offensive line for Ohio State. Buck Moxley suffered a heart attack during the game and collapsed in his seat. Fortunately, a cardiologist was sitting nearby, and Moxley was rushed to University Hospital, where doctors used a then-experimental drug that fought strokes to save Moxley’s life. Even with the drug, Moxley had to be resuscitated several times, but he made it, thanks to Dr. Dan Beatty of East Liverpool, Ohio, who saved Moxley’s life at the stadium, and to Dr. Mark Sanz, who saved Moxley’s life at University of Michigan Hospital.

Earle Bruce? He went out a winner, on the shoulders of his players, and became a de facto ambassador for Ohio State football. All in all, not a bad way to go out.

Thanks again to OurHonorDefend on YouTube, ABC, and Rob Oller and The Columbus Dispatch.